Recent research has challenged how monitoring is defined. The new research argues that most of the available research operationalized monitoring in terms of parents’ knowledge of teens’ activities rather than active attempts to set limits, restrict teens’ behavior, and keep … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a commentWhile studding the work of Abraham Twerski, MD, who pointed out the critical importance of the cognitive processes of addicted people and reaffirmed the importance of such things as reasoning, decision making, concept formation, etc… I’ve learned a lot I … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | 1 CommentProbably the hardest task for parents of the child with addiction is to find a way to help. Choices of intervention are limited when the child is already an adult. It is impossible to rationally understand the mind of the … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | 1 CommentWhen I think about a troubled teenager, I get a visual of somebody who’s fallen through the crack and just hanging there holding on for dear life. What do you do when you stumble upon somebody who is barely holding … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a commentI am thrilled to discover a like minded professional who also points out that parents have to “customize their skills and tactics as they learn about their own motivations and their children’s strengths and weaknesses. Approach of moderation and resisting … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a commentIs there a National Parent Day or Week? There should be, because being a parent is the most challenging undertaking in person’s life! People take pride in their achievements in work, sports, business, etc… What about parenting? The results of … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a commentWhy do SOME new parents all of the sudden employ the same approach they hated growing up with their parents? I think it is because raised that way, they never learned to trust their own instincts or oppinions, so they … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a commentThe challenge of being a parent today isn’t a lack of information. In fact, information load has made parenting more challenging and parents are lost: which parenting strategy to follow? They are scarred to make wrong choices. However who knows … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | Comments OffThe main trap for parents dealing with problematic behavior is that our own behavior is REACTIVE, we react to what happened. When we do that, it is hard not to fall into learned patterns that led to problems to begin … Continue reading
Posted in Uncategorized | 15 CommentsLanguage is everything! It is crucially important how we express ourself and what we say to our children. What a difference it make while talking to your children and greatly impacts the message we are intend to deliver. Negative message: … Continue reading
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